Hello

I imagine you’re here because you find yourselves in a situation where you don’t know quite what works anymore. You need some help to iron out the creases and untie the knots in your relationship, probably at a time when you both feel a bit lost.

Who am I?

This isn’t about me, this is about you, which is why you’re here. 



But you need to know a little bit about me. Then you can decide if you want to work with me to get you back on the same page as each other.

The input I can offer you both comes from over 40 years of working with real people to provide them with the tools, understanding and confidence they need to move in the right direction again – often at times when situations and relationships are just too complex to navigate alone.

1980 was my Forrest Gump year. I was homeless and I took up running – would you believe, as a means of creating a semblance of order in an otherwise chaotic life. I surfaced. I discovered what would become my life-long passion for figuring out what makes us human beings tick. I’ve worked in the world of mental health, as a mental health nurse, senior academic, trainer, psychotherapist and coach.

How can I help you?

This isn’t therapy. It isn’t therapy for a good reason. This is about moving forward at a pace, that is a good fit for both of you and not particularly looking back.

What I can do is offer you the tools and strategies you need to move in a direction that is good for you, good for your relationship and good for your lives. I work in a focussed way that takes the time it needs to take – which may not be long. And it may not necessarily be about reconciliation, it could become about how to end things well.

You will be involved in the process for no longer than is absolutely necessary and potentially reap as many positive outcomes in a short a time as possible.

I operate a poor business model in that I want you to make me redundant at the first available opportunity. I like to get out of the way ASAP. Cost is an issue, I get it, but the notion of value is probably more important. A 90-minute session costs £245. And if you don’t feel our work together is useful, you simply get your money returned, without quibble.

Need to know more? Contact me.